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SomeUserName's avatar

You have discovered the problem with goodwill with some women (and likely men, IDK I don't date them). They oftentimes get the ick from goodwill. Back in my dating career I was shocked at how my innocent goodwill was taken by women and the attitude I got back from it. They acted as if they hated it. Sadly I got much better results when I was more of an asshole.

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Cheirophilus's avatar

Indeed. I think it’s useful with friends. A good way to conduct a friendship.

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